Thursday, June 26, 2008
How hot is she?
People can talk all they want about physical beauty but it seems in my experience that with beauty also comes attitude. I am not saying this is how all "beautiful" women are, i am just saying in MY experience. Yes I am attracted to the girls that are easy on the eyes but i have also been attracted to the "decent" looking ones (i say that because that is how our society ranks attractiveness). A girl that seems to be more about their partner, trust and sense of humor can become attractive just by their personality. Not only do most attractive people date each other (pg. 250) but i agree that one person will always have the upper hand if the relationship is just based on the physical and not the psychological or communication factor. But I agree with that only from the standpoint of younger people. Being more mature than I used to be, I find myself more attracted to the girls who have more personality than looks. Yes they can happen but i know girls who have become more and more attractive the more frequent our interactions became.
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I agree with you boyd013. My biggest attraction is someone who is funny. I am really into comedy: comedy movies are my favorite, I absolutely love going to stand up shows, etc. Laughter is my medicine, man. If someone will continuously make me laugh, they are most attractive to me. This is a quality I look for above all else.
So just like you said, there are other qualities other than physical that are more important. But, I do have to say that you have to be physically attracted to someone in order for it to work. As you said, you might gain physical attraction by being more and more attracted to the personality, but I found that opening story in one of the earlier chapter sad. The story about the lady who after years and years of marriage confessed that she loved him but was never sexually attracted to her husband.
Maybe it was a good marriage, but it did not end well. It is important to have physical attraction as well.
hello,
I Amen to that... i also believe their is other qualities than just physical attractions because women that know they are fine also have bad attitudes. I say this because it seems like they turn their nose up at every man not just the bad one but the good one too. I also have negative experiences with women who think they are to good for every man that walks this earth and thats sad. I also believe that a person's attitude has an effect on their attitude, if they have a bad attitude then that can greatly bring their looks down and for the average girl if she has a good attitude that put her high on the scale because after a couple of dates look dont mean anything, the personality is what carries a relationship
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