Cheating

This country or I should say society has been more open to the idea of cheating. Not so much excepting the idea but open to talking about it. You remember stories of the Scarlet letter and how the adulterer would be treated with a scarlet A sewed on to their clothing. I think about how it would look if we were to do that now, almost everyone of my friends (guys and girls) would have that letter. To me cheating is more of choice, it is a way of communicating your feelings about the relationship to your partner. It should not depend on how the victim found out but more the idea that it is an open way of telling people you are not happy. It can not be fixed by admitting your fault, geting caught red handed, finding out from someone else, or probing for the answer, because either way it happened and the relations can be broken and trust thrown out the window. Almost every person has had an experience with cheating, in any of the three positions that are directly affected.